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The Tantric Dance from Separation to Union through Orgasms
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To understand why orgasm brings us Bliss, Health, and deeper Connection, we need to remind ourselves that as humans we live in a world of duality, where
the masculine and the feminine are two complimentary poles. On a spiritual level, we are always ONE and we are longing for Oneness. We feel this oneness intensely after a great Tantric orgasm brings us into the experience of Bliss in Oneness. It fulfills the urge to reconnect.
In this heightened state, our bodies are relaxed full of potential energy producing an environment in our bodies where health and vitality explode in each cell. We feel fully satisfied and joyous. However, since we live in the world of opposites, there is an opposite urge for autonomy and individuality.
We enjoy that for a while - how long depends by each individual preference and need - and soon the urge to separate takes the front seat in our
consciousness, driving us to separate once again. So we build up magnetism to attract the complementary polarity. If we are in the male energy, we
attract the female and vice-versa. It is this play between the urge to unity and the urge to separate that makes the dance of intimacy possible.
In the moment of orgasm, the soul is restored to its original essence of peace and Oneness.
The quality of an orgasm depends on how deeply you connect with your partner.
As you know, some ejaculatory orgasms are superficial: they just relieve the tension created through fast masturbation or, for women, clitoral stimulation. This is not the orgasm I'm talking about here. I am referring to deeply connecting Tantric orgasms.
For a woman, I mean G Spot and cervical orgasms. And both can be blended with clitoral orgasm. To reach any of these orgasms, trust and emotional
connection are essential. Many of you already know about the G Spot, which we in Tantra call "Goddess spot" (you can read about it on my web site
www.1tantra.com). The cervical orgasm is even deeper and more powerful and it is usually achieved after a longer period of stimulation. The longer
stimulation is a great investment because the woman - and therefore you - will be high for days after that and the man can enjoy his bliss.
For a man, I mean an orgasm that comes both from his body being fully turned on - not just the lingam - and from his soul being fully involved with his
female lover. Tantric tools help a man to reach these high quality orgasms. See my article Male Multiple Full-Body Orgasms on my website (www.1tantra.com). Bathed in a radiant and peaceful "afterglow," you can now both integrate your love on a deeper level as you realize you are one. You are realizing the truth of each moment: "We always are ONE," and there is deep relaxation, ecstasy, peace and safety in the experience of this reality.
However, in this physical reality, if we are always at peace and in perfect balance we can get bored. We exist in this world as a result of opposites:
day and night, light and dark, men and women, etc. Living here fully means playing the erotic game of oneness and separation. Tantra shows you how to
become masters at it.
We, both men and women, have a mixture of feminine and masculine energies. The masculine in us feels its bliss in freedom and emptiness. Bliss for the
feminine consists of mastering change, stirring up energy, flowing with the waves, being the wind that makes the leaves dance, the hurricane, the volcanic eruptions, the explosion of life in spring, the birth of life from her body.
The healthy masculine is driven to achieve some high goals. When he has achieved them, he has the freedom from needing to do something so he can rest
in emptiness: nothing to do - or for some to do something out of joy, not out of necessity; even in lovemaking the masculine part of us works until it
releases the tension often through ejaculation and then hangs out in "nothingness," perhaps tuning out in front of a TV set, or some other mindless entertainment.
All religions founded by men have in some form or another as an important goal redemption (recovering freedom) and eternal peace. On the other hand,
matriarchal societies have produced Tantra and other systems celebratory of love and connection. Celebration of spring is another way the feminine
celebrates. Beltane is a time of celebration and fertility rites. The healthy feminine expresses itself though changes, shades of light and shadows, alternating moods - from joy to crying if she's deeply touched by the presence of the masculine, and his attention to her. The feminine is in touch with what happens in her body, moving her body in waves of pleasure and making sounds according to the power of the waves she feels within her body.
The masculine can ride with her achieving his goal of emptiness when his attention is fully in her so that he becomes her. He enjoys the feminine in all her expressions when he can be so present to her. The feminine feels complete when the presence of the masculine is complete. When this happens, both female and male are in ecstasy and can reach the highest orgasms that are the celebration of the reunion between the two polarities. This intense, juicy celebration of our physical reality takes us to ecstatic places beyond the physical reality. This excursion into the reality of who we are is essential for the health of our human experience. During orgasms, oxytocin, a hormone that creates bonding is being released. The immune system is being stimulated and strengthened, blood circulation brought to all capillaries, flooding us with energy and rejuvenation. People who achieve these kinds of orgasm have a bounce in their steps, a more positive attitude and attract more abundance with fewer struggles. They usually look 10 to 20 years younger when they reach their 50s and 60s.
Yours in Tantra,
Carla
Tara
"Copyright (c) 2006 by Carla Tara All Rights Reserved"
About
the Author, Carla Tara
Carla Tara has been teaching Tantra and sex coaching in Europe and all over the United States. She uses all the powerful Tantric Techniques to open up blocks to the ecstatic energy flow in a safe and sensual environment. She combines Tantra with relationship and longevity counseling and a life coaching. Carla has studied with Eastern masters Gurudev Shri Chitrabhanu, Dr. Ramamurti S. Mishra and Dr. Pandit Raimani Tugunait, as well as with Western teachers Lori Grace, Margo Anand and Charles Muir. For more information visit http://www.1tantra.com or email Carla@1tantra.com.
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