Tantra

Dear Friends,

We have made some revisions to the Open Letter on Phoenix and Sedona based on input from several of you. While the tone has been softened, the substance remains fundamentally unchanged, and we believe the softening strengthens the letter. We hope that some of you who were undecided will now feel comfortable signing and that those of you who would prefer a somewhat tougher tone will understand the importance of making the message more palatable and non-judgmental. We’re very grateful for the input we’ve received thus far.

For those who wanted to be sure that the number of signers would be large enough to make a difference, we have 15 people committed to signing, many of them very well-respected in their fields. The page will include an invitation for others to join.

The arrests were made after a six-month investigation, and yesterday it was announced that the police report is over 200 pages long. There also seem to be tax issues that might give rise to further investigations. Thus, there may well be more damaging revelations to come. If so, there will almost certainly be far more bad publicity, which makes taking this stand now all the more important.

Since this letter is going to so many of you and we want to go public in the very near future, please limit your suggestions to things that you think are highly important and/or that might influence your willingness to sign. Of course, copyedits are always welcome too.

If you have expressed interest or general support but have not specifically stated that you want to be listed, please let us know if you do. Also please provide us with the details of how you’d like to be listed – name, credentials, publications, website, etc.

Thank you all for your insights and support.

Much Love,

Mark Michaels (Swami Umeshanand Saraswati) and Patricia Johnson (Devi Veenanand)
www.tantrapm.com

We, the undersigned, have followed the arrests at and subsequent discussions surrounding the Phoenix and Sedona “Goddess Temples” with concern. We come from a variety of different backgrounds and perspectives, but notwithstanding our diversity, we feel compelled to address the situation in Arizona with one voice, especially when calls for “unity” are stifling informed dissent and creating a distorted public perception of Tantra, sex coaching, sex work, sexual surrogacy, some forms of sex education, and the ways in which they may or may not intersect.

We recognize that many rivers lead to one ocean and respectfully offer our views here for the purpose of deepening the dialogue and exchange of ideas. We invite all concerned to investigate their assumptions, question and double check their facts, think clearly, and refrain from emotionalism.

1) We regret that law enforcement deemed it necessary to investigate and make arrests in this case and have sympathy for those who have been charged, especially those whose beliefs may be sincere but who may be misguided with regard to the legality of their actions.

2) We support at minimum the decriminalization of sex work

3) Tantra is a diverse tradition. It takes many forms, including but not limited to a modern version known as Neo-Tantra. Some versions of Tantric and Neo-Tantric practice include sexual ritual as a sacrament. At the same time, many Tantric practitioners are celibate. To limit the definition of Tantra to sacred sexuality or to treat sex work, sacred or otherwise, as central to Tantric practice is both ahistorical and potentially offensive and damaging to the many practitioners who do not engage in these activities, as well as to many of those who do include ritual sex among an array of other practices.

4) As far as we are aware – the exchange sex for money is not mandated anywhere in traditional Tantric teachings, for any purpose, nor is exchanging sex for money central to the practices of most Neo-Tantric practitioners.

5) We do not support using a religious freedom argument in the Goddess Temple cases because:

a) It creates arbitrary divisions between sex workers who self-identify as “spiritual” and those who do not.

b) If successful, t would enable rather than discourage related crimes like human trafficking, forced servitude, and child prostitution because it would create an exemption that could easily be used by traffickers as a cover, since religious freedom tends to limit the degree to which government scrutinizes religious organizations.

c) The legal precedents are clear. For religious practices to be constitutionally protected, they have to be central to the religion. For example: http://openjurist.org/46/f3d/948/bryant-v-h-gomez-d We are aware of no living religious or spiritual tradition in which sex for money is central. While it is true that the devadasi tradition persists to this day in South Asia, Human Rights Watch describes it as “sexual slavery.” Human rights implications aside, the practice is in decline and is in no way central either to Hinduism or Tantra.

d) American law is also clear that if money changes hands, and there is a quid pro quo, the mere assertion that a payment is a donation does not make it so. http://supreme.justia.com/us/490/680/case.html

6) While we understand and sympathize with the sense of outrage and injustice that many have expressed and admire the rapidity with which people have mobilized, we believe that some have acted and spoken without adequate information. We are also troubled by some of the aggressive fund-raising in support of a defense that we see as legally weak and potentially damaging to the sex-positive, sacred sexuality, and sex-worker movements. If you want to advance the causes of sexual freedom and/or sex worker rights, there are many established and credible organizations that could use your support. We encourage all readers to do their due diligence, seek second and third opinions from people with no stake in this particular case, and choose wisely.

The defendants in the Phoenix and Sedona cases and their supporters – no matter how well intentioned – are doing a disservice to our communities by raising religious freedom as a defense. Given the legal precedents, including but not limited to those cited above, this is not the argument with which to lead if we are seeking to build a more sex positive world for all people, whether or not they think of themselves as religious or spiritual. We cannot allow our work or our efforts to be defined by the actions of a misinformed or misguided minority, even if we consider them to be our friends and peers and no matter how pure their intent.

In Unity,

UPDATE: OCT 11 2011

Upon further review of the case law, I have determined that Paragraph 5(c) of the Open Letter is not accurate. Bryant v. Gomez, the case cited, is a 9th Circuit case, and the centrality standard has since been rejected by that circuit in Shakur v. Schirro.

 http://caselaw.findlaw.com/us-9th-circuit/1423510.html

As the signer of the open letter with a legal background and the person who researched these issues, I take full responsibility for the mistake. I should have been more careful; however, my error does not affect the overall thrust of the letter, and the consensus view of the signers has not changed. The signers still believe that pursuing a religious freedom argument in this case is likely to do more harm than good and stand by the other statements.

In State v. Hardesty (2007), which rejected a freedom of religion claim for the use of marijuana, the Arizona Supreme Court wrote:

  A party who raises a religious exercise claim or defense under FERA must establish three elements:  (1) that an action or refusal to act is motivated by a religious belief, (2) that  the religious belief is sincerely held, and (3) that the governmental action substantially burdens the exercise of religious beliefs.

http://lawyersusaonline.com/wp-files/pdfs/hardesty.pdf

 

FERA is an Arizona statute that is more generous with regard to freedom of religion than the constitutional standard established by the Supreme Court. There is a similar federal statute that applies to federal laws but not to the states.

In the Hardesty case, the state conceded all three of the above elements. Based on their public statements, it does not appear that the prosecutors in the Goddess Temple cases will do the same, and while “mandated” and “central” may not be explicitly addressed, they may still arise implicitly in the context of whether the statutes being challenged “substantially burden the exercise of religious beliefs.”  If the  defendants were to win on the above questions (and it is on them to prove all three), another very high hurdle remains. The explanation of the “compelling state interest”-“least restrictive means” test in the Hardesty case provides a good preview of how an Arizona court would likely handle a case involving sex work. I remain convinced that, even if the criteria listed above are met, the likelihood of success under the compelling state interest-least restrictive means test is vanishingly small.


Mark Michaels

 

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Secrets of Sexual Ecstasy

by DoctorG on September 21, 2011

by Frank Wiegers

Is there a secret psychology to deep, fulfilling sexuality and relationships? I suggest there is. It’s not so much a secret as it is a hidden knowing that you may not be conscious of. Sexual expression and your relationship tell you how you are doing in your life. If you sense there is more, or you feel as if something is missing in your life, then maybe some new thought is in order.

The “secret” is YOU; your awareness of what’s true and natural for YOU. The secrets are revealed in a journey to create open, loving relationships and deep levels of satisfaction in your life. With the right information and support you can make the changes and the shifts that will allow you to expand your capacity for joy and full self expression.

Do you want a powerful path to enlightenment and transcendence? Being engaged in loving relationship is an extraordinary path that is readily available to all. What do you think the most important relationship is? It’s the one we have with our Self. Only when you are fully aware of who you are and what you really want in this life are you able to bring your full presence into a loving relationship with a beloved.

What do you think is the number one factor in sustaining a loving relationship? Sexual chemistry has been found over and over to be the glue that keeps relationships alive and well. In order to achieve and sustain sexual ecstasy on a consistent, repeatable basis you must know something about the technology of sex and just as important you must know the technology of relationships.

Where do we get training or education in the area of loving relationship, especially when the sexual element is brought into play? Many of us have had very poor role models to follow in these areas. The value of knowing how relationships work and using that technology to enhance your relationship pays huge dividends in almost every area of your life. Most highly successful people make their relationship a leading priority in their lives.

What are the rewards for having a lot of sexual ecstasy in your life? The greatest reward of all — you feel good. You have the freedom to feel the real you. You look good because you are feeling good and you generate large amount of hormones and enzymes that keep you feeling and looking youthful. You raise your vibratory levels of energy, which allows you to create more of what you really want in our lives. Spiritually, sexual ecstasy allows you to be open and to receive Divine energy and carries you along your own path to enlightenment and transcendence.

The journey is full of joy, pleasure and growth and we can guide you on the path..

Step 1. Realize that you are perfect where you are. As you begin this journey, take a breath and relax before going on to step two. It=s as easy as that. This is all about you winning, your peace and satisfaction. All you have to do is be at ease with being you. Take another breath and go to…

Step 2. Welcome to the next step in your life. The key to making changes is to first be aware that change is needed, know what you want to change and then have a system for reconditioning. Usually we have to be in some level of discomfort or pain before we become aware that a change is needed. Often we are not exactly sure what we want to change but know that things aren=t going the way we would like them to. To know what you would like to change, take a look at some of the books on our recommended reading list. That may help clarify things. Listen in to our weekly tele-community call. Hear others talk about issues in their life and you can ask questions if you want to participate. There’s no charge other than the long distance call. Click here for more information on the tele-community. After checking this out you are ready for Y

Step 3. There are three key elements to reconditioning. Motivation is essential. It is often tied to the amount of pain you are in when you decided to make a change, as well as the strength of desire for change. Repetition is another key element. You have to create new neural networks to replace to old ways you had of doing things. The most important element of all is having a support system. So often you want to make changes and you start a program; then life happens and before you know it you are back in your old ways and the new program is abandoned. Having a coach and a community to keep you on track can get you where you want to be.

How do you start to create the life, love and relationship that you want? You start with where you are. You need a clear picture of who you are and who you want to become. You must know your values and purpose in life. Only then can you evaluate and determine what you want in sex and relationship. Awareness of your relationship requirements, needs and wants is a start and from that create your vision of the relationship. What is interesting is that each partner can have their own set of requirements and vision. What is important is that partners are supported by the other in fulfilling their vision.

Can this be done without help? Yes, and it has. However if you were to take up golf or piano, would you not want a pro, a teacher/coach to help you get started? Professionals keep a staff to help them achieve their goals. Is our sex life and our relationship any less important?

About the Author

 

Frank WeigersFor the last twenty-five years Frank Wiegers has studied with masters from all over the world. He has experimented with many forms of relationship and many different sexual practices, all the while looking for the spiritual aspects of both.  As a seventy year old, he has more virility and vitality than he had as a much younger man. How is this possible? Because he has studied and lived the principles and technology he teaches.

 

Frank has been married twice and has three children by his first marriage. Each of those marriages brought him lessons that enabled him to find his way to this path. His relationships embody all the principles and practices he teaches. The ecstasy/energy from this relationship now overflows into every area of his life. Frank wants to pass this on to as many people as he through coaching, teaching seminars and his forthcoming book SECRETS OF SEXUAL ECSTASY.

Along the way, Frank collected degrees in Business, Engineering and Law and has worked in each of those arenas. He has attended many seminars and workshops and is a Religious Science Practitioner (spiritual counselor). He also flew jet fighters in combat, raced Formula cars in Europe, wrote one novel, four screenplays, did film and video production, and currently races sailboats.

It is truly Frank’s passion to help people reach beyond what they thought was realistic or possible.   For more information on this remarkable man and the services he offers in  Los  Angeles, you can visit his website athttp://www.ConsciousLover.com/.

 

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Does Like Attract Like OR Do Opposites Attract?

by DoctorG on September 21, 2011

by Frank Wiegers

Really both apply in relationships. The opposite part that attracts is the polarity between male and female. It’s not just the gender difference it’s the maleness and femaleness of each of the partners. Without that masculine and feminine energy difference there is no chemistry.

The chemistry is the sexual energy that creates the lusty passion in a relationship. This is an extremely important factor in maintaining the vitality of a loving relationship. If both partners have masculine sexual energy, then you have buddies. If both have feminine sexual energy – girlfriends.

We are all born with a mixture of both masculine and feminine sexual energy. For men the base level of masculine or feminine energy can be determined by the level of enzyme production he gets during gestation. Once the chromosome shifts to XY, if the mother does not secrete certain enzymes at the right times the boy will not have as many masculine traits as some others. There is still a lot of research in progress in this area.

Your sexual energy can vary during the day depending on what you are doing and who you are with. As a man, I can have very high feminine sexual energy when I am with my children. When I am competing or doing business, I have very strong masculine sexual energy. Sometimes with my beloved in the bedroom, I can be very feminine and let her give to me. I would say that I am in a masculine energy state between 80 and 90 per cent of the time.

What about women in the workplace? They have to be in a masculine energy state or they will get eaten by the masculine energy sharks out there. The challenge is when they come home to be with their beloved or family. It takes some kind of transition to get a woman out of the masculine energy from the workplace into the feminine energy of hearth and home. This is especially true when it comes to making love. If she is in a masculine space and he is in a masculine space and they want to make love, something has to happen to shift her into her feminine space before any chemistry can occur.

A good way of shifting her into a strong feminine space is a bubble bath or a massage or both. She can also do something more feminine such as working in the garden, shopping for feminine things, or some artistic expression that will get her into the feminine flow. If the man is in a feminine state and she is in a masculine state – party on. The key is having the opposite sexual energy like poles on a magnet attracting and creating that lusty passion.

So what happened to like attracts like. Isn’t the Law of Attraction the most powerful law in the universe? It is and here is how it applies. When you attract someone some one into your life, you attract them on the same vibratory level that you are vibrating at. Than means that they will most likely be about the same educational level, the same socio-economic level, and have similar cultural tastes and preferences. There are exceptions but they are not the rule. Often what looks like a big disparity is a good match on levels that we cannot easily observe. If we choose a partner that is too dissimilar it often complicates the partnership and creates insurmountable problems.

The challenge occurs when meeting someone in a new relationship and the chemistry is very high and the sex is fantastic. What happens when we have great sex is a very strong production of oxytocin which is the hormone that bonds us together. If one is not careful at this stage then bonds become very strong and are more difficult to break when it is revealed that the one we are enthralled with is not a good match for us at all. Happens a lot. It’s not the end of the world but it does require some possibly painful unbonding.

The key is not to avoid sexual contact completely, just choose carefully and try not to let the chemistry overwhelm you. Having a coach or some support system to bounce thing off really helps deflect some potential disasters and perhaps can also connect you with some one who might merit a second look. Doing it alone is always more difficult.

About the Author

 

Frank WeigersFor the last twenty-five years Frank Wiegers has studied with masters from all over the world. He has experimented with many forms of relationship and many different sexual practices, all the while looking for the spiritual aspects of both.  As a seventy year old, he has more virility and vitality than he had as a much younger man. How is this possible? Because he has studied and lived the principles and technology he teaches.

 

Frank has been married twice and has three children by his first marriage. Each of those marriages brought him lessons that enabled him to find his way to this path. His relationships embody all the principles and practices he teaches. The ecstasy/energy from this relationship now overflows into every area of his life. Frank wants to pass this on to as many people as he through coaching, teaching seminars and his forthcoming book SECRETS OF SEXUAL ECSTASY.

Along the way, Frank collected degrees in Business, Engineering and Law and has worked in each of those arenas. He has attended many seminars and workshops and is a Religious Science Practitioner (spiritual counselor). He also flew jet fighters in combat, raced Formula cars in Europe, wrote one novel, four screenplays, did film and video production, and currently races sailboats.

It is truly Frank’s passion to help people reach beyond what they thought was realistic or possible.   For more information on this remarkable man and the services he offers in  Los  Angeles, you can visit his website athttp://www.ConsciousLover.com/.

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Happiness Ever After

by DoctorG on September 21, 2011

by Charles and Caroline Muir 

As written in “Tantra: The Art of Conscious Loving”

The secret to passionate, long lasting relationships is the life’s work of Charles and Caroline Muir. The following excerpt is adapted from Tantra: The Art of Conscious Loving, a book which details how to put passion back into your love life. The Muirs are teachers of yoga and body therapies, and their approach to sexuality incorporates spirituality as well as an honest affinity for pleasure. Together they run Source School of Yoga and Tantra on Maui, Hawaii. They have appeared on national television as tantric sex experts.

These days, not many of us believe in happily-ever-after. Statistics show that well over half the married couples in our culture divorce, and many of those who stick it out do so for reasons other than personal happiness – because it’s such a hassle dividing everything, moving, having to start over – not to mention children and the emotional and financial aspects of splitting up. In this practical twenty-first century climate, it’s hard to take happily ever after as much more than a metaphor in which ‘ever-after’ means ‘for-a-while.’

Theoretically, this definition could allow a person to live happily ever after if he or she lived in consecutively happy-for-a-while relationships. These were fashionable to a degree in the sixties and seventies, but became first questionable and then dangerous in the eighties as the AIDS epidemic was recognized and understood. But it is not just fear of AIDS that is changing contemporary relationships. In our seminars, we meet men and women whose desire for partnership stems from a feeling that there is something important to be gained from a significant relationship. And it seems to be more than a desire to ‘settle down.’ Couples today are looking for a commitment from each other, but a special kind of commitment – one that contains a spiritual as well as a physical element and emotional and psychological aspects as well as material ones.

This may be the start of the ‘we’ generation, a generation that desires an end to the battle of the sexes and the beginning of a new form of relationship in which partners work together as a team to satisfy needs, uplift one another, and journey together toward personal growth and sexual and spiritual fulfillment.

Promises

The past few decades made us some promises of sexual sophistication, personal independence, and prosperity. For a large number of men and women today, many of these promises have been fulfilled. We are richer because we know more about ourselves – in fact, we are a culture fascinated with itself. We take care of our bodies, we exercise and eat well, we stop smoking. We look to improve. We visualize bright futures.

Being so blessed, so evolved, why are we less successful than previous generations in making relationships last?

If We’re So Smart, How Come We’re Not In Love?

There’s love, and then there’s Love. There’s passionate love, and then there’s love after passion or without passion. The latter has been known, in fact, to be quite cozy and satisfying in many ways; but without passion, may also deteriorate into a pale version of the original – a benign tolerance, and there is the risk that it may die completely or turn into resentment or disrespect, or worse.

It is not dispassionate love that we want to discuss. We want to focus on love that is full of passion and heat, love that makes your blood fairly pulse inside you; love that is all the nourishment you need. This is the love that overcomes all obstacles, dissolves time, obsesses you, possesses you, and radiates from you so that people comment on your ‘glow,’ and are drawn to you as if by a magnet. This is love that expresses itself sexually as a wonder, the best ever. It is so for both of you – you can’t get enough of one another.

Love is not necessarily blind, as Shakespeare claimed, but it is surely an altered state. Physicians tell us that biochemically, love shares a lot of the same exhilarating effects that amphetamines produce. We know that the immune system can be strengthened by it; that white blood cells perform better; and that the production of endorphins increases. We feel terrific!

So what happens? What causes passion to close its doors after such a promising opening to such good reviews?

Part of the answer can be found if we consider passion as a kind of energy that depends on other energy for its survival. When we are in the early passionate stages of a relationship, we expend a lot of time trying to win one another, enchant, impress, and attract one another. We mentioned that passionate love overcomes obstacles. It is the energy required in that overcoming that is most significant. For example, when men and women decide to live together, they eliminate one of the biggest obstacles of all – physical separation – but they don’t realize that they are removing something that has contributed to their passion. They need to find a way to compensate for the energy-hole their relationship experiences when they no longer need to overcome the obstacle of living separately. They have created an energy void and passion suffers for it. The diminution of energy diminishes passion.

In the early stages of a love affair, passionate energy seems self-generating. The newly attracted couple is in a nearly constant state of arousal. They’re charged. They’re superconductors. And then, usually, the lovemaking falls off – quantitatively, anyway. It’s less urgent once you’ve come to trust your relationship, come to rely on your partner, gotten to be ‘familiars.’ We want to trust one another and rely on one another – but why must we lose Love?

In fact, we don’t have to lose anything. What usually happens is that the lessening of lovemaking means a lessening of energy in the relationship. When couples don’t make that physical connection as often, the atmosphere changes. Love begins to stagnate and energy is directed elsewhere.

Men and women who are passionate about their work, or their art, or their politics, are recognized for the energy they manufacture in order to pursue and maintain and advance the endeavor to which they are devoted. In the same way, men and women who are passionate about their relationship must be committed to manufacturing the energy needed to sustain it. This is especially true in an era that offers so many opportunities and so much personal freedom. Many of us have several passions, and sometimes the amount of energy spent pursuing them exceeds the amount of energy they return. When this happens, we operate with a ‘passion deficit.’ We have to borrow energy from other sources to compensate. Ultimately, unless we rectify the deficit at its source, we will suffer serious losses. Too often one of these losses is passion.

We meet many couples who are simply too busy or too tired to make love. Both work; they have children; they contribute time and energy to their community and to their church. They’re concerned about self-improvement, so they devote several hours a week to health and physical fitness. Many have aging parents to look after.

The irony is that making love can provide both partners with more energy..

The solution we teach in our seminars and workshops is based in part on the tantric ‘lifestyle’ that was designed centuries ago specifically for householders – that is, couples. The tantric texts are explicit on how the differences between the sexes can be used as a positive force in a partnership, how the proper combination of these differences can produce a near alchemical reaction, an ether in which everything flourishes, in which the garden of your relationship bursts with color and a new life and growth, and you and your beloved thrive.

For more information on the Muirs and their seminars, click on the following logo to send an email requesting further information.

 

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Male Multiple Full-Body Orgasms

September 21, 2011

Share(c) 2006 By Carla Tara There’s a widespread misconception that male orgasm must involve ejaculation. The truth is that men can have several full-body orgasms without ever ejaculating, and those orgasms can be far more satisfying than ordinary ejaculatory orgasms. A man who pays attention to his body’s reactions can probably attest to the fact [...]

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Importance of Touch to Build Sexual Charge and Love

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The Tantric Dance from Separation to Union through Orgasms

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What is Tantra?

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What is Tantra?

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Tantra: The Art of Sexual Healing

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Shareby Evalena Rose, M.A. Tantra is a beautiful way to heal wounded sexuality and give you back your body and your life. It combines the ancient spiritual arts of sacred connection to yourself and others, gleaned from the wisdom traditions of many paths, including Buddhism, Hinduism, Sufism and Native American spirituality. Using deep and intentional [...]

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Five Benefits of Expanded Lovemaking

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ShareFive Benefits of Expanded Lovemaking by Patricia Taylor, Ph.D. Expanded Lovemaking: I’m amazed how many people have enjoyed thistruly extraordinary experience at least once, and often many times. Have you? You’re spending erotic time with someone – laughing, kissing, lusting, bonding. . . you are connecting, immersing in mutual attraction, longing to feel your partner more fully, [...]

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Welcome to DoctorG.com, The #1 Resource Center for Female Ejaculation and Stimulating the G Spot

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ShareDr. Gary Schubach is a sex educator, lecturer and writer. Dr. Gary Schubach’s overall perspective is that our society does not teach people the necessary interpersonal relationship skills nor do people acquire this information naturally. Most people have the desire to know more about sexuality and how to relate successfully with another human being and [...]

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